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Blueprint: How to throw the best hen’s party at home


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Posted 29 May 2025

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Emily Reed


A table setting at a hen's party at home, with drinks, pinata and decorations

Skip the exxy bar tabs and Ubers, and make it the party of all house parties for the bride to be.

Good food, good drink, good friends – at its essence, a party is a timeless combination of elements brought to life by the individual touch that hosts and guests contribute to the occasion. To help you pull off your best and most fun-filled gathering yet, our Dan’s Daily Blueprints tell you everything you need to host whatever event is next on your hit list.


Are you in charge of planning a hen’s party? Fun! It’s a big responsibility being tasked with delivering the most unforgettable day of a bride-to-be’s life (no pressure). Booking a venue is always an option, but for this Blueprint, we’re championing the at-home hen’s. If you – or someone in the bridal party – are happy to host, then all that’s left to do is get a little creative, rally the crew, pull in everyone’s cash contributions for the day, and make sure the vibes are high from start to finish (but again, no pressure). 

Hosting at home saves you from unnecessary venue costs and frees up the kitty for more exciting things – like doodle straws, a next-level grazing table and a few bottles of bubbly for good measure. Add a theme, some cheeky games, a late-night living room dancefloor, and it could go down as a history-making hen’s.

 

Dress codeThere’s no shortage of dress code choices when it comes to a hen’s – that’s what makes them so damn fun! Your outfit will ultimately depend on whether the event has a theme. Many hens opt for white, so if you’re a guest, steer clear unless you want a dirty side-eye from the bride-to-be all day. Non-traditional brides might go for a bold colour or head-to-toe sequins, while asking their guests to all wear white. Is it cowboy-themed? Time to break out the denim and rhinestone boots. Maybe you’re transporting your guests to Italy with a themed long lunch, where the vibe is vibrant and floral, and pasta-eating is totally appropriate. Whatever the direction, remember this: a hen’s party is a marathon, not a sprint. Sure, you want to look cute for the grid dump, but you also want to feel comfortable for eight-plus hours. So, skip anything too restrictive and leave the blister-inducing shoes at home.
How to decorateAgain, the theme will dictate how you decorate the party space. It’s a good idea to gauge the bride’s feelings toward the usual hen’s party paraphernalia (you know – those doodle straws, certain posters on the wall, and the like). If the bride’s mum or grandmother will be attending, it’s always smart to double-check what’s appropriate. Think of grandma, please! If you do get the go-ahead to sprinkle some phallic touches around the place, we reckon a Wackadoodle piñata is a must. This decoration doubles as an activity (and a snack), so you know you’re getting more bang for your buck. If it’s a sit-down affair, simple touches like tablecloths, place cards, menus and floral arrangements will do wonders. A life-sized cutout of the groom-to-be? Classic.  Heart-shaped sunglasses as bonbonnieres? They always go down a treat. Remember: the girlies love a photo moment. Pick a spot with a cute backdrop (streamers or florals work well) and let the ‘candid’ pics flow.
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What to drink

1. The party starter 

A glass of prosecco to kick off festivities? We can already hear the squeals of excitement as the bubbles are poured. Prosecco is generally always a crowd-pleaser and a fun, fizzy way to welcome guests to the event. We love Dal Zotto Pucino Prosecco because it’s approachable, fresh and lively. It has bright citrus and pear aromas with lovely crisp apple, pear and lemon flavours, complemented by gentle bubbles and a clean, refreshing finish. A very sippable bubbly – from a Champagne flute (or phallic-shaped straw). Stocking up on quality OJ for a round of Mimosas will make it go further.

2. A wine that pairs well with (almost) anything

An easy-drinking rosé from McLaren Vale, South Australia, Chapel Hill The Parson Sangiovese Rosé is a dry and textured style, showcasing sangiovese’s delicious core of sour cherry fruit. Expect aromas of cranberry and pomegranate, and fresh, juicy berry flavours, which make it a lovely drop as the hors d’oeuvres roll into the main course or as the grazing table is slowly devoured. On the subject of food, rosé is a great pick because it pairs nicely with so many different flavours, especially snacks and finger food, mild and soft cheeses, cured meats and more. In other words, a classic hen’s party menu.

Sangiovese’s delicious 'sweet' core of sour cherry fruit

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It's the perfect base for hundreds of drinks and cocktails.

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3. The cocktail-hour no-brainer

As the day (or night) progresses, so does everyone’s appetite for a fun cocktail. If you’ve hired a male bartender (who also happens to leave most of his clothes at home), then you can leave the shaking and stirring to him. If you plan on getting on the tools as a maid of honour or bridesmaid, then consider cocktails that aren’t too difficult to make en masse. Opt for pre-batching ahead of time if you can, otherwise tipples like a Sex On The Beach, Cosmo or Lemon Drop will all go down a treat. They’re all fresh, easy to make and use vodka as a base, so grab a few bottles of Absolut Vodka to give you lots of options.

4. For when the dancefloor kicks off

So, the party has switched gears and the place is jumping (as it should be). Time to bring out the fuss-free drinks – something that's easy to chill, self-serve and low on dancefloor spillage. Our pick? The Archie Rose Gin & Mango Soda. A super refreshing, ready-to-drink option in a can that combines the distillery's award-winning Straight Dry Gin with juicy mango and native Australian finger lime. Vibrant, fun and best sipped between Charlie XCX verses.

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What to eatRegardless of the menu, the most important thing is to make sure everyone actually eats. If you’ve ever been to a hen’s, you know there’s a lot of yapping, squealing, photo taking, game playing and dancing, so it’s important to factor in feeding everyone between those moments. For a sit-down meal, consider a menu of shareable dishes, but that doesn’t mean you need to start cooking three days out. Think rotisserie chooks and salads, platters of sushi and sashimi, pizza and pasta, or maybe a Thai takeaway spread – don’t be shy to dial it in. And keep some snacks out so people continue to eat – Cheezels totally count. If it’s more of a cocktail-style stand-up vibe, a big DIY grazing platter (with plenty of bread to boot) will keep everyone filled up, carb-loaded and ready for the dancefloor. If you foresee the night rolling into the wee hours, think ahead with frozen party pies, sausage rolls and spring rolls. Use those pooled funds to buy more than you think you’ll need. Finally, don’t forget a little sweet treat to mark the occasion. A fun cake or cookies that tie in with the theme (and doubles as a late-night nibble) is a must.
PlaylistThe options are endless. We recommend asking everyone who’s attending this party to share one or two songs that remind them of the bride-to-be. This is a cute and thoughtful way to build a playlist around your hen. Beyond that, anything goes! Dua Lipa, Lady Gaga, Beyonce, Sabrina Carpenter, Charli XCX, Lorde, Britney Spears… every pop banger you can think of will be a winner. Just be sure to play it loud. And if someone had the foresight to hire a karaoke mic for later, they deserve a round of applause. Don’t want to be queuing up songs later in the night? Let Spotify be your DJ with the Bachelorette Party playlist.
Don’t forgetYou don’t have to spend big to have some great entertainment and games. There are plenty of ways you can make the hen’s party feel unique and packed full-o-fun. Maybe go for a pasta-making or paint and sip element, a DIY cocktail station where everyone has a go at shaking up a drink, or turn the backyard into a festival with picnic blankets, fairy lights and lawn games. Don’t have money left over to hire a stripper? No stress. Why not try what this bridal party did and organise the fiancé to rock up as the surprise stripper while the hen is blindfolded? Unreal scenes.